At some point, one of you is bound to lose interest, purely because relationships built on pretending not to care or trying to seem unavailable rarely make it past a certain point.That being said, if you decide to go down this road to make yourself seem a bit less available than you actually are, there are some things you should take into consideration.Even having the phone around is a risk, with 58% saying they didn't want their date to place the phone on the table face up, and 41% said it's rude when someone takes their phone to the bathroom or outside — perhaps because there's a chance they're gossiping to their friends about how terrible the date is going.This year's study found that checking your phone regularly on the first date is the number one turn-off for women, with just one in ten women thinking it's acceptable. People are fairly judgmental when it comes to how you use your phone in general.If you're dating someone new and worried that responding to their text too soon might make you seem too available, first ask yourself, what kind of texter are they? Are there a couple minutes in between each of their texts?
Although players may seem to be responding "well" (i.e., they are eager to meet up, they're double texting you, and they overall seem super interested in you) to ignored texts and long reply times, these kinds of games only work for a little while.The safest course of action is to reflect your partner's own texting habits right back at them.This is a pretty foolproof way of meeting them at the same interest level, while also ensuring that you're not being Like I mentioned earlier, the main reason people spend time contemplating how long they should wait to reply to a text is because they want to seem less available and interested than they actually are.If you really like someone, you don't want them to think you're sidebarring them, so you'll just have to cope somehow.In its annual Singles in America Study, dating site Match asked over 5,000 singles in the US about dating rituals, including what people thought was appropriate use of their phone on a date. Last year's study found that three quarters of singles said they would be turned off if their date answered the phone without any explanation, while 66% said it was off-putting if they texted.