She attests to find me attractive still, but she just doesn’t feel the desire for sex anymore.Waxing a little selfish, this leaves me in the lurch as a healthy 40 year old male who loves his wife, finds her completely desirable and desperately wants to consumate that love…This is not the relationship that I was “promised” when I bought the idea that we would be lifelong partners. I get where I am very angry with him and don’t want to even be near him. tweet I live in a sexless marriage where my husband thinks it’s ok to brush over this because he loves me and we’re otherwise happy. I don’t want to leave him because I love my kids, I have nowhere to go, I gave up my career for his etc.I cannot stand being trapped here for 20 years wasting my life away with a friend when I want a lover too.tweet It’s been three and a half months since we have been together and I’m starting to consider other alternatives.
“I scheduled a facial, a massage, and lots of drinks beginning at 2 p.m.,” she said. We know half the attorneys in town, and I bet we’ll see someone in court.
I met her husband, Josh, the summer before, on Mother’s Day, which coincided with their 12th wedding anniversary.
Beka had shooed him out of the house to host a mother-daughter tea, and he appeared in the seat next to me at a neighborhood bar.
If we can’t improve things I’m afraid I’ll be someone who will cheat, and that isn’t who I want to be.
tweet My wife, who is 7 year older than I and I love deeply, has fallen into a not uncommon phase where she has no desire for sex.